I have a friend who has come to me many times asking me to give her a spell so that she can get her ex-husband back. What should I do?
First of all, is she really a friend? Is her request making you uncomfortable? Finally, this is one of the greater concerns, is she a wiccan? Why all the questions? Well, we need you to be aware of what it is she is asking and the position she is putting you in. If she isn't a wiccan, why would you contemplate putting yourself in the position of handing her any type of spell without her having knowledge of "The Rede". If her requests are making you uncomfortable, you need to let her know how it's making you feel. If she is truly a friend, she will stop. It seems that she wants to manipulate with anothers emotions. This is dangerous. Our advise to you is to try and redirect her energy into healing herself and letting go of the relationship. If it is meant to be, it will be on its own. If she persists, tell her you cannot assist her and do your best to make her aware of the repercussions. If all else fails, then just take yourself out of the entire situation.